Creating Room For a…Yes!

Create Room for a Yes. We are not going to dive into real and perceptions of abuse, undiagnosed claims of narcissism, and things that are just negative and not right from either side of the spectrum.

Doing things that you know are right is the focus. This applies to both sides of a relationship, work, children, teenagers, friends, family, etc. Not worrying about anyone else, except your actions. Positive intentionality, helping selflessly, doing your part, loving in times of hurt, respecting in times of wanting to express anger, being silent to really think about peaceful behaviors 🤐 when you so much want to get your point across when it’s no point …except to make a point, taking initiative to do something impactful in the absence of being told to do something, and more positives from the heart are important attributes for creating a yes. Yes to that proposal, yes to going out with friends with extra cash as a teen, yes to that promotion, yes for that loan approval for that house, yes for Gods Favor! As you see… This applies to children and adults (and we as adults have to model these behaviors to teach our children).

Expecting a yes is not creating room for a yes. When things are done selflessly without expectation is when you receive the greatest rewards. Sometimes right away, sometimes it may take some time. The key is from the heart with no expectations.

We are not perfect but we can do our best to try to be better than the day before. Create Room for a Yes. Actively perform actions and make changes that allow positive outcomes or desired results to occur is important. It starts in the mind, takes initiative, and patience helps tremendously…Removing obstacles and barriers will help also.(pride, selfishness, impulsiveness, expectations, competing emotionally, negative past feelings, not healed, etc)

Ecclesiastes 7:9 states, “Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry: for anger resteth in the bosom of fools.” This verse advises against quickly becoming angry, suggesting that anger is a characteristic of foolish individuals, according to some Bible commentaries. It also implies that wise people exercise self-control and patience, while fools allow anger to dominate their thoughts and actions. Makes sense. 🧐

A lot of us want a lot from not doing much. Do the work. The extra consistent heartfelt selfless efforts … that’s the extra. If it feels hard to do…search a little deeper..it’s there…and it will get easier. No expectations, no timelines…just pure heart and initiatives😉Create Room For a Yes.